Is it weak to avoid a situation you know you will fail at instead of just flat out saying no to the people/situation? Is it okay to avoid something instead of confronting it? Esp when you know you'll fail at the confronting part? Sometimes we feel inadequate in helping others emotionally, spiritually or even physically. Like you aren't strong enough to carry yer burdens and someone elses because you know your limits and you know the others persons problems. Almost like you need to help them in order to help yourself, but you don't know if you can do it or how. Thats how I feel right now. "I'll do whatever it takes To turn this around I know what's at stake I know that I've let you down And if you give me a chance Believe that I can change I'll keep us together whatever it takes I'll keep us together, I know you deserve much better"